The Bottom Line

Whether you're in the US, Australia, or India, the story rhymes: dating apps are brilliant at one thing — making you feel like love is just one more swipe away. They are considerably less brilliant at actually delivering it, and in some markets, they've become a genuine safety risk.

In the US, $1.3 billion vanished into romance scams in 2025 and 45.7% of app users went a full year without a single date. In Australia, $139.9 million was stolen through romance scams — still the third-highest scam category nationally — and 91% of singles say the apps aren't working. In India, 1 in 7 people have already fallen victim to a romance scam, losing an average of ₹2.8 lakh each, and AI deepfakes are making the problem worse by the month.

Meanwhile, demand for human-led matchmaking in the US surged 58% in just one year, Australians are increasingly dating with marriage as the explicit goal, and Indian families and singles alike are rediscovering the value of a matchmaker who actually knows both people in the room. The market is speaking. Are you listening?

Curated matchmaking offers something the apps fundamentally cannot: a real human who cares whether you find love, who has vetted the people you'll meet, and who will hold your hand through the process and give you honest feedback along the way. It's not magic — no ethical matchmaker promises guaranteed outcomes — but it is a fundamentally different, more respectful, more intentional, and frankly safer approach to one of life's most important pursuits.

Love is too important to leave to an algorithm — especially one that might be a deepfake.

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